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Bankruptcy Pep Talk
So often, people come to me, embarrassed and ashamed that they are facing bankruptcy, or a similar compromise of debt. They feel that they have failed. They are hard on themselves in a way that is not productive.
I created this pep talk in an effort to help them through this cross road in their life. Feel free to share this with anyone who you feel would benefit from it.
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“You’re not here because you messed up. You’re here because you optimistically thought that you would continue on the progressive path you were on. But life happened and things change and you have to learn the rules of a new game. And its tough at first. But you will get through it. And you will learn from your experience. And be stronger because of it.
Life is a series of lessons. This is just one of them.
So hold your head up high. Walk out into the world. Be strong in the knowledge that you made a difficult decision that will benefit you and your family for years to come. Let the guilt go. Be thankful that you have learned this lesson at this stage in your life and not later.
I wish you health, happiness, peace and prosperity. “
I’d love to start this post with the secret formula to use when talking to / negotiating with your creditors.
Unfortunately, the method that works best depends on who is on the other end of the line, their personality/style and maybe on the success or failure of the call before you.
Some agents are understanding and sympathetic. Others, well, not so much. They have an agenda and will not waiver from it.
The following are some “tips” to help you take some of the stress of these conversations.
- Keep a record of your call. Get the name of the person you are talking to, the company they are calling from, and their phone number. (If they refuse to give you this information, politely tell them you are not prepared to talk to them without that info).
- Do not offer to pay an amount that you know you are unable to pay. Ask them what an acceptable payment is and tell them you will review your budget/finances and get back to them. (Get back to them).
- Remain calm. These calls can get heated and the agent may rely on an aggressive approach. Getting upset at the agent won’t help. If you feel the agent is over stepping your boundaries or harassing you, politely tell the agent that you are not prepared to talk to them in that manner and will hang up if they continue.
- You may be told that there will be legal action against you or that your credit will be destroyed. The truth is, they CAN take legal action, it doesn’t mean they WILL and if your account is in collection, your credit is affected. Offer this response, “I understand that (you may take legal action/this may affect my credit/etc.) It does not change my situation”.
- Decide what you can and cannot do and stick to it. If you cannot pay anything, be honest. Tell them what you are doing about it (ie. I am going to talk to a financial counsellor, my bank, looking for a job, waiting for a cheque). Offer to get back to them on a specific date.
- Call back with an update. Even if it is to say nothing changed. They may not like your update, but it is what it is.
Have a tip to add? Please comment!
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What comes to mind when you hear the word “Consolidation”? Do you envision all of your debts being ‘paid off’ leaving you with the manageable obligation of one monthly payment? If so, you are thinking about a “Consolidation Loan”. A financial institution loans you money by paying off your debt and you pay them back. With interest, of course.
Nowadays, the word “consolidation” is being used in a much more liberal term. Many debt-relief agencies offer to “consolidate your debt”. The process is quite different. Your creditors are approached and offered a settlement. That settlement could be in full or in part (a percentage of what you owe) and could result in an elimination or reduction of interest.
In the Insolvency Restructuring Profession we call this “consolidation” or “settlement” a Consumer Proposal
So, what is the difference between a “consolidation loan” and a “debt consolidation”?
The most important distinction is the effect on your credit rating or score. A consolidation loan will not affect your score in a negative way and may, in fact, improve it. A debt consolidation, on the other hand, WILL impact your score negatively, the extent depends upon your credit score at the time of the ‘consolidation’.
A friend recently asked me if I could recommend a reputable debt consolidation company that will not impact your credit score. My answer was “Nope, they don’t exist!”. If you find one, let me know!!
(Blog submitted by 3rd party) / Author: Robin Williams
[Please note that the poster does not offer any recommendation for sites linked to these articles and cautions readers to use good judgement in contacting a company for assistance wth their finances.]
If you have multiple debts, you may face difficulty in making all your bill payments on time. In such a situation, like everyone, you too will wish to get rid of your bills. You can pay off all your bills by obtaining a consolidation loan. You can also seek help from professional debt consolidation companies. They advise you and offer you services to tackle your debt problems.
How can you benefit by professional debt consolidation advice?
Professional consolidation companies provide you with financial advice and help you combine multiple bills into one. They also offer you other benefits. These are:
* Free counseling: A certified counselor of the company will analyze your monetary situation and will help you determine your financial goals.
* Communicate with creditors: A representative of the consolidation company will effectively communicate with your creditors. Your creditors may stop harassing you with collection calls.
* Negotiate to reduce interest rate: The representative will negotiate with your creditors to reduce the rate of interest on all your bills.
* Eliminate other charges: The company representative will also negotiate with your creditors to help you eliminate or reduce late charges and over limit fees.
* Convenient repayment plan: The consolidation company prepares a repayment plan for you based on your credit needs and gets it approved from your creditors.
* Replace multiple payments with one: Instead of making separate bill payments, you have to make a single reduced monthly payment to the consolidation company and they will disburse it on time to all your creditors.
* Become debt free: With the help of a professional consolidation advice, you can pay off all your debts within 4-6 years.
There are also various non-profit debt relief companies that offer debt consolidation programs. By enrolling in one such program, you can obtain relief services at a lower cost. However, you must remember that there are less reputable companies. So, you must verify the company’s status before seeking consolidation advice from them. You must check its accreditations.
For details on all of your options, and an outline of the benefits and disadvantages of each, contact Dr. Debt (info@drdebt.ca) to arrange free consultation.
Recently, I received a question on this site, asking about our credentials – a very important questions. Given the broad range of “advisers” out there in both the real world and the world-wide web, you never really know who is imparting their knowledge on you, do you?
So, I thought I would take a moment and tell you about us…
As I write most of the posts, I will start with my credentials. I have been working in the Financial Counselling / Bankruptcy industry for 12 years. My training has been a combination of professional training and experience. I obtained my financial counselling certificate from The Association for Financial Counseling and Planning Education (AFCPE) while working in this industry. Nowadays (is that word actually in the dictionary?), the Financial Counselling Program is coordiante by the Office of the Superintendent of Bankruptcy and the Canadian Association of Insulvency Restructuring Professionals. More importantly, I feel that I have personally made most of the financial mitakes I write about.
Enough about me…we are supported by our Trustee, Darryl Haley, who has more than 30 year experience dealing with individuals and businesses in everything from money management to business turn arounds. He hold a CA designation and Trustee in Bankruptcy license.
In addition, we have several staff members with a wealth of training and experiences who talk to people every day about their financial situation and we draw upon other business colleagues and experts in their fields, to bring you relevant advice and experience.
So thank you for asking!
(Do you have a question for Dr. Debt? Click on “Ask Dr. Debt” and watch for a post addressing your question.)
I’m in my car. On my way to work. Listening to the radio. And one commercial catches my attention.
A lady comes home with a shopping bag. Her husbands asks what’s in it and then exclaims, “Don’t you have enough dresses?” (Like that’s actually possible)
She replies, “But honey, they were 70 percent off”. He pauses and then replies, “That’s a lot. ”
The message closing off the commercial is, “Save money. Save on explanations”.
This strikes a chord with me on so many levels. First there are all those dresses in my closet (just kidding. I feel confident I have a reasonable number and I wear them all). What resonates with me is the fact that this is a general perception. If it’s on sale and I’m getting such a great bargain, I should buy this.
Of course we don’t know how much the dresses in the commercial cost before the sale. 70 percent off of a 500 dollar dress is still a good chunk of change.
And did she pay cash or use credit? A sale may be well and good, but if you pay for it on credit, and take several months or years (yikes) to pay for it, the total cost of the use of credit could eat up the savings.
The bottom line is, your budget should dictate what you spend, not the ultimate sale price.
If you step back and look at your finances, you will find that you are in one of three stages of financial being.
The first stage is “survival mode”. This is where you are just barely getting by. There is just enough cash flow to put a roof over your head, food on the table, gas in the car. But very little room for anything else. This is a dangerous place to be as any life event – big or small – can tip the scales and start you on a downward spiral. Credit is often used as a crutch, with the best of intentions, to balance out the budget.
The next stage is the “breathing room” stage. You are here if you have enough cash flow (not including credit) to survive and to deal with things as they come up. If the car breaks down, you can get it fixed. Maybe not right away, or it may set you back and you will have to adjust to catch up. Credit can be used as a safety net but caution should be stressed to keep the credit use at a minimum and ensure you can manage the payments comfortably.
The third stage, which is where we all strive to be, is the “comfort zone”. In this stage you are surviving, you can deal with irregular expenses as they come up, and you have the flexibility to do some or all of the things you want. Often times, credit is used to “enhance” this position. A dangerous game. You should proceed with caution.
So, what stage are you in? Where do you strive to be? The first step is AWARENESS. The second step is ACTION!
Trimming your budget is a lot like trimming your waistline.
Consumers spend millions of dollars every year looking for that magic solution to losing weight. And businesses increase their bottom line while relatively few consumers decrease their bottoms/middles etc.
The same phenomenon happens in money management. We tend to look for quick fixes – consolidation loans, second mortgages, payday loans.
Neither works for the masses. Why? They do nothing to address the underlying problem – taking in more calories than you burn / spending more monthly dollars than you make.
But alas, there is a magic solution to gain control of your finances! – AWARENESS. Pay attention to the details.
1. Track where your money goes and make decisions to change your habits.
2. Seek expert advice/guidance when needed.
3. Commit to a plan of action.
That’s it. That’s the secret. 
It’s been six long months and my hands are cleaner than ever. Who would have thought I would make it this far?
I am referring to life without a dishwasher. Around mid-December, ours broke. My first reaction was sheer terror. I’m pretty sure I almost lost consciousness. Like many families struggling to make ends meet, I didn’t have any savings to buy another. The word credit kept flashing in my mind, but we were just managing what we had. I took a deep breath, pulled up my rubber gloves, and started washing.
It wasn’t so bad. “Not much more work then rinsing the dishes, loading and unloading the dishwasher”, I thought. Day 2! – It occurred to me that growing up we never had a dishwasher, we, gasp, washed and dried them – by hand. I then had a BFO (blinding flash of the obvious!). My gosh, we are raising a generation of kids who never have to wash dishes. Visions of power failures and piles of dirty dishes flashed by. I decided to start operation “Dishpan Kids”. I asked, in a way that made it sound incredibly exciting, “Who wants to learn how to wash dishes?”. It was fun. The family doing dishes together. What a concept.
I will admit, I had some setbacks. Entertaining guests poses some additional challenges (clean-up takes slighly longer than loading the dishwaher) and some surprises (during our last get-together, the guys did the dishes while the girls played cards…hmmmm…). A month or so after we began “Operation Dishpan Kids” I found out that the dishwasher actually was not broken. It’s something under the sink (that’s as intelligent as I get on that subject). It will probably take an hour and 20 bucks to fix. But you know what? I’m ok. I think I can go without. In fact, I kind of like it. I enjoy watching my family share in the responsibility and I have a really great two-level dish rack to dry my dishes on.
I, like many others, jumped on “The Secret” bandwagon. I watched the movie and began incorporating the process into my life. It wasn’t that difficult, I’m generally a positive thinker . A few years ago, my friend gave me “The Secret” calendar with a thought for each day. There is one that particularily caught my interest. It was about money. And for the past decade or so, money, or lack thereof, had been an issue for me and my family. The thought went like this…