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Its true! Just because we help people find solutions to their financial woes, doesn’t mean we don’t have our own.
I’m sure fitness instructors sometimes have lazy periods, Investment advisors have lost money and great chefs order pizzas. The point is, we are all human and we all make less-than-perfect choices once in awhile. In fact, it is our very mistakes that help us help you. As other has been heard saying, “do as I say. Not as I do”.
So, here’s my confession. I have been suffering from a low credit rating for, oh my, ten years at least. What can I say, life happened – self-employment + two kids – no maternity leave + husband parental leave = dependency on credit / over-extension / drop in credit rating. And we’ve been struggling ever since to get back on track
And get back on track we will! Why? Because we are determined. We are working together. And I am a financial counsellor after all. Which basically means I have the skills, tools, resources to get out of this mess.
It is those skills and experiences that I, and my fellow Dr. Debts, share with you to help you on your financial path of success.
Update (3 months later)…my credit score increased by 50 points +. How you ask? I followed my own advice. More specifically, I did the following:
- talked to someone who knew more than me about repairing credit ratings. ”Use your resources!”
- committed to stop using any new credit for three months. It took some juggling and commitment. “Prepare/review or revise your spending plan”
- Re-arranged my existing credit. I had to obatain new credit at a higher rate of interest and move some of my additional credit to avoid being maxed out. “Never max out your credit limits”
- Stayed on track for three months. “Commit to your plan”
There is no magic solution. The right steps may vary depending upon the circumstances. The common lesson is, don’t give up. Find a way that works for you and commit to it.
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What comes to mind when you hear the word “Consolidation”? Do you envision all of your debts being ‘paid off’ leaving you with the manageable obligation of one monthly payment? If so, you are thinking about a “Consolidation Loan”. A financial institution loans you money by paying off your debt and you pay them back. With interest, of course.
Nowadays, the word “consolidation” is being used in a much more liberal term. Many debt-relief agencies offer to “consolidate your debt”. The process is quite different. Your creditors are approached and offered a settlement. That settlement could be in full or in part (a percentage of what you owe) and could result in an elimination or reduction of interest.
In the Insolvency Restructuring Profession we call this “consolidation” or “settlement” a Consumer Proposal
So, what is the difference between a “consolidation loan” and a “debt consolidation”?
The most important distinction is the effect on your credit rating or score. A consolidation loan will not affect your score in a negative way and may, in fact, improve it. A debt consolidation, on the other hand, WILL impact your score negatively, the extent depends upon your credit score at the time of the ‘consolidation’.
A friend recently asked me if I could recommend a reputable debt consolidation company that will not impact your credit score. My answer was “Nope, they don’t exist!”. If you find one, let me know!!
Recently, I received a question on this site, asking about our credentials – a very important questions. Given the broad range of “advisers” out there in both the real world and the world-wide web, you never really know who is imparting their knowledge on you, do you?
So, I thought I would take a moment and tell you about us…
As I write most of the posts, I will start with my credentials. I have been working in the Financial Counselling / Bankruptcy industry for 12 years. My training has been a combination of professional training and experience. I obtained my financial counselling certificate from The Association for Financial Counseling and Planning Education (AFCPE) while working in this industry. Nowadays (is that word actually in the dictionary?), the Financial Counselling Program is coordiante by the Office of the Superintendent of Bankruptcy and the Canadian Association of Insulvency Restructuring Professionals. More importantly, I feel that I have personally made most of the financial mitakes I write about.
Enough about me…we are supported by our Trustee, Darryl Haley, who has more than 30 year experience dealing with individuals and businesses in everything from money management to business turn arounds. He hold a CA designation and Trustee in Bankruptcy license.
In addition, we have several staff members with a wealth of training and experiences who talk to people every day about their financial situation and we draw upon other business colleagues and experts in their fields, to bring you relevant advice and experience.
So thank you for asking!
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I’m in my car. On my way to work. Listening to the radio. And one commercial catches my attention.
A lady comes home with a shopping bag. Her husbands asks what’s in it and then exclaims, “Don’t you have enough dresses?” (Like that’s actually possible)
She replies, “But honey, they were 70 percent off”. He pauses and then replies, “That’s a lot. ”
The message closing off the commercial is, “Save money. Save on explanations”.
This strikes a chord with me on so many levels. First there are all those dresses in my closet (just kidding. I feel confident I have a reasonable number and I wear them all). What resonates with me is the fact that this is a general perception. If it’s on sale and I’m getting such a great bargain, I should buy this.
Of course we don’t know how much the dresses in the commercial cost before the sale. 70 percent off of a 500 dollar dress is still a good chunk of change.
And did she pay cash or use credit? A sale may be well and good, but if you pay for it on credit, and take several months or years (yikes) to pay for it, the total cost of the use of credit could eat up the savings.
The bottom line is, your budget should dictate what you spend, not the ultimate sale price.
We have a weekly tradition in our household. Every week, assuming they have earned it, we stop at the local convenience store, where my kids get to pick out a movie. We head to the non new-release section. Its a great deal. A 3 day rental for 2.00. The kids get an entire weekend of entertainment (assuming they have time to watch the movies. And if they don’t, it’s only 4 bucks.)
For their birthdays this year, I thought I would take them to the library to get their very own library cards. My 8-year-old daughter is an avid reader and I’m hoping my 6-year-old son will develop a taste for books. We were just getting ready to check out their books when I remember, “the library has movies too”. So off we go.
Two movies. No cost. 7 day rental. Hmmmmm. I think I will change our weekly tradition. That will save us 16.00 a month. With the monthly savings maybe we will go to the movie theatres once in awhile. =)
If you step back and look at your finances, you will find that you are in one of three stages of financial being.
The first stage is “survival mode”. This is where you are just barely getting by. There is just enough cash flow to put a roof over your head, food on the table, gas in the car. But very little room for anything else. This is a dangerous place to be as any life event – big or small – can tip the scales and start you on a downward spiral. Credit is often used as a crutch, with the best of intentions, to balance out the budget.
The next stage is the “breathing room” stage. You are here if you have enough cash flow (not including credit) to survive and to deal with things as they come up. If the car breaks down, you can get it fixed. Maybe not right away, or it may set you back and you will have to adjust to catch up. Credit can be used as a safety net but caution should be stressed to keep the credit use at a minimum and ensure you can manage the payments comfortably.
The third stage, which is where we all strive to be, is the “comfort zone”. In this stage you are surviving, you can deal with irregular expenses as they come up, and you have the flexibility to do some or all of the things you want. Often times, credit is used to “enhance” this position. A dangerous game. You should proceed with caution.
So, what stage are you in? Where do you strive to be? The first step is AWARENESS. The second step is ACTION!
Trimming your budget is a lot like trimming your waistline.
Consumers spend millions of dollars every year looking for that magic solution to losing weight. And businesses increase their bottom line while relatively few consumers decrease their bottoms/middles etc.
The same phenomenon happens in money management. We tend to look for quick fixes – consolidation loans, second mortgages, payday loans.
Neither works for the masses. Why? They do nothing to address the underlying problem – taking in more calories than you burn / spending more monthly dollars than you make.
But alas, there is a magic solution to gain control of your finances! – AWARENESS. Pay attention to the details.
1. Track where your money goes and make decisions to change your habits.
2. Seek expert advice/guidance when needed.
3. Commit to a plan of action.
That’s it. That’s the secret. 
It’s been six long months and my hands are cleaner than ever. Who would have thought I would make it this far?
I am referring to life without a dishwasher. Around mid-December, ours broke. My first reaction was sheer terror. I’m pretty sure I almost lost consciousness. Like many families struggling to make ends meet, I didn’t have any savings to buy another. The word credit kept flashing in my mind, but we were just managing what we had. I took a deep breath, pulled up my rubber gloves, and started washing.
It wasn’t so bad. “Not much more work then rinsing the dishes, loading and unloading the dishwasher”, I thought. Day 2! – It occurred to me that growing up we never had a dishwasher, we, gasp, washed and dried them – by hand. I then had a BFO (blinding flash of the obvious!). My gosh, we are raising a generation of kids who never have to wash dishes. Visions of power failures and piles of dirty dishes flashed by. I decided to start operation “Dishpan Kids”. I asked, in a way that made it sound incredibly exciting, “Who wants to learn how to wash dishes?”. It was fun. The family doing dishes together. What a concept.
I will admit, I had some setbacks. Entertaining guests poses some additional challenges (clean-up takes slighly longer than loading the dishwaher) and some surprises (during our last get-together, the guys did the dishes while the girls played cards…hmmmm…). A month or so after we began “Operation Dishpan Kids” I found out that the dishwasher actually was not broken. It’s something under the sink (that’s as intelligent as I get on that subject). It will probably take an hour and 20 bucks to fix. But you know what? I’m ok. I think I can go without. In fact, I kind of like it. I enjoy watching my family share in the responsibility and I have a really great two-level dish rack to dry my dishes on.
I, like many others, jumped on “The Secret” bandwagon. I watched the movie and began incorporating the process into my life. It wasn’t that difficult, I’m generally a positive thinker . A few years ago, my friend gave me “The Secret” calendar with a thought for each day. There is one that particularily caught my interest. It was about money. And for the past decade or so, money, or lack thereof, had been an issue for me and my family. The thought went like this…
Isn’t it wonderful? There is absolutely no reason to wait for something you can’t afford now. And the deal is much better than buying it on regular credit that has to be paid starting next month. Ah! what a wonderful consumer-driven world we live in.
It’s also dangerous. In fact, it’s a trap – a credit trap. The objective is to have you commit future income towards the purchase of something you just can’t (don’t want to) wait for. We are such an impatient society aren’t we? Wait! It gets better – you are further tempted (expected) to spend more than you normally would on the item(s) AND the gamble is that you won’t pay it off completely by the time it comes due.
I have to admit, I’ve been on the no-payment-no-interest (npni) income tax cycle for about three years. What do I mean? It’s simple – buy on a npni deal, payments are deferred for 12, 15 (or even more) months. Your plan is brilliant – when your tax refund comes in you pay it off – in full.
I had a close call a couple of years ago. My income tax refund almost did not come through in time. Whew! Side-stepped that one. Why am I sharing this you ask? Because, I’m human, I make mistakes. The key is to learn from them. I have discovered that there are some key rules to a successful npni endeavor.